"They also serve who only stand and wait." - John Milton

Two down.

This week was slightly less long. Still long, still difficult, but slightly less so than last week.

DH finally made it to his final destination and it looks like he will have reasonably good internet access, which helps immensely. I hoped and wished for connectivity like this during the last two deployments and it never happened, even when it was possible for others around him. When I had convinced myself that we weren't going to have it, didn't need it, would be fine without it, he drops it in my lap. My cheeks hurt from grinning after that conversation. :)

One of the things I find myself missing most right now is simple human contact. We don't have children and I took a bit of a break from my business while waiting for him to deploy, so I haven't been doing a whole lot outside the house. I think I may go ahead and book a massage in the next few weeks. It's amazing how vital human contact really is.

4 comments

Comment from: Tootie [Visitor] Email · http://tootiewritings.blogspot.com
Hooray for good internet access! That makes all the difference.

And the massage sounds like a perfect idea! Enjoy it!
08/29/09 @ 09:15
definitely a massage! I am so glad that you'll have better internet contact this time around.
08/29/09 @ 16:58
Comment from: Elaine [Visitor] Email · http://www.tackybuzzer.blogspot.com
Alright for internet access! Crucial! And two cheers for a massage. Full body massages are awesome, but I would highly recommend a scalp massage. Out like a light! Enjoy it--you deserve it!!
08/29/09 @ 22:00
Comment from: aggie_mle [Member] Email · http://www.myspace/mulderfix
congrats on 2 weeks down. I find the first month the hardest, once you are able to say "1 month down" it feels like the rest just keeps going quicker..

we didn't have much internet or phone contact the first go round, and now for this second one, we do ..

I am finding that I miss him more now that we are in contact SO much more than last time. it was easier to get into "be by myself" mode last time when an email or phone call was a welcomed surprise.

now it seems that it's just a reminder of the fact that he's NOT here!

Don't get me wrong, I appreciate it and love to be able to talk to him on a semi constant basis .. it's just different.

hope you have a great time at your massage.. they work wonders!
08/30/09 @ 12:54

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