"They also serve who only stand and wait." - John Milton

How appropriate

It's been more than a year since my last post. I was doing some webdomain housecleaning and opened my blog for a trip down memory lane. It hit me then how ironically appropriate the title is: She Who Waits. If you're a previous reader, you might've… more »

Alone in a sea of support

When the C Word comes up, everyone wants to be supportive. There are hugs, notes, even generous gifts (and I adore my new Keurig, trust me!) and offers to call if I ever need anything, anything at all. I'm beyond grateful for this awesome support netwo… more »

Next stop: Crazytown

It's been quite some time since I've posted, I know. A ton has happened between now and then, I'll try to fill in the gaps. Warning: Choppy novel ahead.My husband came home at the very end of September, nearly a full week before my surgery on Oct 6t… more »

Rambly tonight

I've had a few down days lately and I've been missing my husband something fierce. My surgery date is still most likely weeks away and I think I've made a mistake in letting myself visualize the comfort of actually having my husband home for it now… more »

Perspective

So it's been nearly a week now since the cancer diagnosis. Everyone is treating me like I'm fragile ... "How are you doing, really?" ... I'm fine, honest. *insert raised eyebrow here* A friend is going through breast cancer right now. Another frie… more »

Did you just say the C word?

During an extended deployment? Of course, when else would a military spouse get cancer? I'm the third in our unit, as far as I know. Eesh.C&P from Facebook:Yesterday I received the results from a biopsy of two large nodules on my thyroid,… more »

Loss

Thursday night I was surfing Facebook and getting ready to go to bed when I saw that a close friend of my husband's post mentioned something about the support from her friends and the light of her husband shining on. My stomach dropped and I immediately… more »

Do they think about it?

As it took me 40 minutes to drive 10 miles yesterday through all of the tourist traffic on the beach, I couldn't help but wonder if they think about the reason for the holiday behind their weekend. It was all I could think about this morning. My hus… more »

Forced (blog) changes

Okay so as you might have noticed, my blog is BARE.  No header, no fun smilies, nada. There were some compatibility issues that created a need to upgrade my long-defunct blog software version, which means that all my customizations are gone.  I've actu… more »

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